I hope everyone is doing well. I have a request for my dying Pepe. On Nov.24/07 my 84yr old grandfather in law had a bad heart attck. His heart suffered alot of damage the Doc is trying to figure out why he is still here. As of yesterday I saw (threw my minds eye) Grandma is waiting for him he reached for her hand but she gave him a flower instead. He stopped breathing @ 3:30am this morning it took 2 hrs to bring him back, the Doc said there is no more they can do for him so bringing him home would be a better thing for him. His heart is very very weak, his lungs are filled with fluid & his kidneys are shutting down he is suffering and we all agree he will not be with us for X-Mas. So I am asking for your prays for our Pepe to pass quickly and as painless as possible so he won't have to suffer anymore. This is no way for any person to live theri last days. I am asking when he passes that he goes in his sleep when all our family memembers are sleeping. Please do not think I am playing God/ess I am not if only you could see him as we do. Please say a pray for him I know I am asking alot but my heart tells me this is the right thing to do. I am only hoping when my time comes I go in my sleep, painless & quick. Thanks so much Goddess Bless Angie
________________________________________________ We are spinning our own fates good or evil and never to be undone. Every smallest stroke of virtue or vice leaves its never so little scare.
I think the kindest thing you can do with him is to let him know that you are here for him and maybe talk about what your vision was.
The night before my father had his bypass surgery a couple weeks ago, my son and I just sat and taljked with him, about the past the present and the hope for a future.
He told us that he had made his peace and that there comes a times in ones life that he knows it may be his or her time to transition on. He told my son and I that he was ready to go and that he was no longer afraid and whatever was going to happen, he was at peace with it all.
My father is in his late 70's and many of his friends have passed on already. Knowing that and his state of health at that time, he knew it was possible he would not make it. He did, and he is happy but he did say strongly that once someone is that sick and in that position they make peace with their life and think alot.
Basically what I am trying to say is that your grandfather in law probably has those feelings of helplessness too and may just want to have you all close to him if you can be and mostly just be there to reassure him of your love and all. I will have him and your family in my thoughts.
I wanted to stop by and say thank you all for your thoughts and prayers that means the world to my family & I. My Pepe left us @10:22am to join Meme and the rest of our family who has passed. We are happy knowing he doesn't have to suffer anymore. Again thank you all so very much. From the depths of my heart & soul Love, Peace & Serenity to you all. God/ess Bless Angie
________________________________________________ We are spinning our own fates good or evil and never to be undone. Every smallest stroke of virtue or vice leaves its never so little scare.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for updating us. I know how it can be a relief that your loved one is not suffering anymore, but it still very difficult. You'll remain in my thoughts.
My Pepe is being layed out Sunday 2-5 & 7-9 and buried on Monday. So things are tough but it will get better. Today Dan & I celebrate 17yrs and he is not with us physically we do know he is here spiritually. X-Mas will be tougher but there are many of us to lean on each other and help each other through Thanks for the they are never short in supply and they feel good too God/ess Bless you all Angie
________________________________________________ We are spinning our own fates good or evil and never to be undone. Every smallest stroke of virtue or vice leaves its never so little scare.
