Oi, so today I went to my wife's prenatal appointment, might as well be birthing appt number one. Because they put her on bedrest, which wouldn't be so bad except for the fact that:

A) She's the only one with blood pressure problems.
B) The baby has a steady heart rate aside for contractions.
C) We're already financially f*cked and today we just flatlined.

So I'm stuck trying to figure out how to get rid of excess money drains, securing funds, and getting my family fed.

I'm at my f*cking wits end this year already, and now to top it off, I have next to no income, and a house payment, and no way to fall back on anything, I'm completely f*cked and now I have no desire to even get out of bed...yeay!

I have only one question, where is the handle to flush all of this s***?

wow. i don't even know what to say. bless ya'll. things HAVE to turn around for ya'll soon. in the meantime, consider calling local churches and ask for help to help ya'll through. that's what they do and your beliefs shouldn't be an issue. also, have you checked into gov't assistance? surely they would find a way to help ya'll right now. food stamps? food bank?? WIC? i know there's help out there for ya'll but you have to ask around. no easy feat but don't let a selfish ego get in your way. your family needs you.
only the best to you and yours dear. i'll be sending ya'll positive vibes.

thanks mama...I'm looking into WIC and the UAW has a food bank as well, I'll have to see whats up with them, we're not bad, but it'd be nice to have some stuff.

Sorry to hear about your situation, TD. Best of luck with finding help, and many good wishes for you and yours.